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Q:
you think a Pastor should be preaching after he has had an adultress affair.
His marriage breaking up and remarring his wife back after the affair?
A: First,
let us say that we are glad that they are back together. However, the
question is not so much "should the pastor be allowed to preach,"
but, our question is "how would he be heard?" Would the congregation
have questions in the back of their minds as to whether or not this man
would do that again.
If
they are thinking these thoughts, we do not believe that he is being effective.
Sin
has consequences and sometimes, especially for pastors, those consequences
are long term.
Here
are some thoughts that might help you
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Pastoring
Gods people demands far more because the issue is not just leadership,
but moral and spiritual example. Summing up that realm of requirement,
Paul demands that an overseer in the church of Jesus Christ must be above
reproach. The Greek particle de (must) emphasizes that this is an absolute
necessity.
A
life without blame is the over arching requirement for leadership in the
church.
Pastors
must take great care to remain above reproach for several reasons. First,
they are the special targets of Satan, and he will assault them with more
severe temptation than others. Those on the front lines of the spiritual
battle will bear the brunt of satanic opposition.
Second,
their fall has a greater potential for harm. Satan knows that when a shepherd
falls, the effect on the sheep is devastating.
Third,
leaders greater knowledge of the truth, and accountability to live
it, brings greater chastening when they sin.
Fourth,
elders sins are more hypocritical than others because they
preach against the very sins they commit.
Leaders need an abundance of Gods grace and power because of their
greater responsibility and visibility.
To
protect themselves leaders must spend indepth time in the study of Gods
Word. They must be constantly nourished on the words of the faith
[Scripture] and of the sound doctrine (I Tim. 4:6) The psalmist wrote,
Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against
Thee; (Ps119:11) A leader must continuously expose his life to the light
of the Word of God. He must also be a man of prayer, and be accountable
to others in spiritual fellowship.
The
church is called to be committed to maintaining leadership that is godly.
The church is responsible to measure men by the standard of above reproach.
The all too common practice today is to forgive a leader who sins and
immediately restore him to his ministry. The church, like God, must not
hesitate to forgive those who truly repent. To immediately restore them
to the ministry, however, lowers the standard that God expects leaders
to follow. And since leaders serve as the pattern of holiness and virtue
for the congregation, the standard for the entire church is lowered.
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